Showing posts with label Gratitude. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gratitude. Show all posts

Monday, May 1, 2017

Make It Your Moment: Malinda Ann's 1st Boston Marathon



“It’s through storytelling that I motivate myself. I try to come up with a story that will motivate me to get out there and attempt a goal"
- Joan Benoit Samuelson



"So many moments make up a marathon. All uniquely personal, but when looked at together they truly embody what it means to #BeBoston." - John Hancock Extra Mile



“You're alive in the moment, and the moment is truly all anyone has.”
- Greg Dulli


I've started writing this post dozens of times...

Tears come to my eyes whenever I think of all the people who helped me on my long road to Boston.

The moments that made up my marathon story were so meaningful to me that it's been difficult for me to put the experience into words.

As I begin to write my story, I want to express my deepest gratitude for all the support I received before, during and after my 1st Boston Marathon.

I will continue to add to this post as I gather my thoughts. I hope that my story will inspire others in the way that so many stories have inspired me.

In the meantime, my 4 sources for memorable moments on Marathon Monday:

1) Running with Dana-Farber

I was so grateful for the opportunity to be a charity runner.



Running for a reason greater than myself made my experience much more meaningful.



Since 2012, Leah and I have been running with Alex's Lemonade Stand Foundation for Childhood Cancer in memory of Leah's brother-in-law, Michael and our grandmother, Aileen, known affectionately as "GG" by my daughter.



Since so many of our family and friends have been and continue to be affected by cancer, joining the Dana-Farber Marathon Challenge was the perfect choice for me.



It was inspiring to see so many #RunDFMC charity runners and spectators along the course.



I'm so very grateful for the 45 friends and followers who generously donated to Dana-Farber. I matched all the donations that I received to double the impact of your generosity.





Together we we went the distance to conquer cancer. We raised $5,050 and 100% of every $1 donated will support cancer research at Dana-Farber Cancer Institute.


2) Music & Musicians

Music by Plastic Ants, The Afghan Whigs & Greg Dulli kept me moving during my marathon training - especially during my long treadmill runs.

While I often listen to music while running, I chose to run without music for most of the marathon so I could fully appreciate the sounds and sights along the road from Hopkinton to Boston.



"Tough Girls (Got To Tough It Out)" was my #Train2BQ (x 12) theme song. This was also one of the songs that motivated Leah during her painful run and kept us running together to the finish line.



I've been running to music by The Afghan Whigs and Greg Dulli for over 23 years. Receiving these messages of support from The Afghan Whigs & Greg Dulli meant so much to me.









3) Spectator Support

The spectator support from Hopkinton to Boston is awesome.

Thanks to Wellesley's Munger Hall for our Scream Tunnel signs.





I made certain to show my support to all spectators cheering along the road to Boston.

I shouted "THANK YOU!" until I was hoarse and high-fived as many spectators as physically possible.



Tears welled up in my eyes many times as I remembered the spectators killed and injured on April 15, 2013. I continue to think of everyone whose lives were forever changed on that tragic day.

I've tried many times to express my thoughts about my experience in Boston on April 15 but I still can't find the words.

Thanks again to Mark Remy for writing "Standing Ovation" - I've read this dozens of times over the years and it still brings tears to my eyes.




4) Family, Friends & Followers

Many thanks to our family who helped us reach this milestone.

Many thanks to my twin, Leah, for running together with me.





Many thanks to our friends who supported us on our journeys.

Many thanks to my friend Elissa for her continuous support and inspiration. So grateful to Elissa for setting-up "Malinda runs 2017 Boston Marathon!" Facebook event and encouraging others to donate.



Many thanks to my friend Anne for her continuous support and inspiration. Anne ran her 1st Boston last year and wrote an emotional post about her experience that motivated me to keep trying to BQ.



Many thanks to our running friends from Charlottesville for making us laugh at the post-marathon dinner hosted by Heidi.



Many thanks to Mark Remy (Dumb Runner) for The World's Dumbest Coverage of the World's Best Marathon® and for writing about his experience as a blind guide.



Many thanks to our followers on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter for your virtual support.

To be continued ... 







Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Running Thoughts After Boston Marathon

Seen on my 1st run since Boston...

Who can you HELP today?
Who can you INSPIRE today?

How have you been affected by Boston? Were you running? Were you cheering? We were both there and grateful to be OK but our hearts still ache and we want to help those who need it most. Thanks @LeahCville for compiling this list of Boston Marathon victims' fundraising pages and news links.
http://agoodgroup.com/bostonlist.html

Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Boston Marathon

Thank you for your kindness.
We appreciate your support.
May those suffering find comfort.


Tuesday, January 8, 2013

@TwinsRun 2sDay

It's @TwinsRun 2sDay!


39.3 miles so here is another 3G  themed post! ;-)

Malinda's 3G Network...

I'm grateful for my family's support.
I'm grateful to run for @AlexsLemonade.

As GG used to say, it's better to give than to receive. 
It feels good to give time & money to @AlexsLemonade.
Can you give $2 to fight childhood cancer?

Guess who is who during #WDWMarathon Weekend.
Don't worry, we both answer to Leah & Malinda. ;-)
Or, you can always shout, "It's @TwinsRun!"


Monday, January 7, 2013

My 3G Network: Grief, Gastroparesis & Goofy Challenge

Today, January 7, is GG's birthday. On January 13, when @TwinsRun the 2nd half of Goofy's Race and a Half Challenge, it will be 6 months since I received the phone call. On Friday, July 13, our mom called to tell me that our grandma, GG, had fallen and was very ill. GG was diagnosed with cancer and died on Monday, July 16. The grief over the past 6 months has been intense. My only solace has been running (#Irun4GG). I'm grateful that Leah and I will run Goofy's Race and a Half Challenge together to support Alex's Lemonade Stand Foundation for Childhood Cancer in her memory. She was so proud of us for supporting such a worthy cause.

I grieve for myself, my family and especially for my mom. I wish I could give more support to my mom, because she lost her mom and best friend. I can only imagine how difficult it has been for her since I can't imagine my life without my mom.

It's been especially difficult for me lately, since I still struggle with gastroparesis. Sometimes, the physical pain is easier to cope with than the emotional pain. Even with the pain, I'm grateful for the support I received from GG and the support I continue to receive from my mom. Because of their support, it's important for me to keep going and to keep giving back to others.

Monday, December 24, 2012

Christmas Memories with GG

Christmas 2006
Leah, GG, Malinda
Andrew, Mary, Zoe
 
@TwinsRUN Goofy's Race and a Half Challenge
in memory of GG to raise money for @AlexsLemonade!
 
For all those who are grieving this Christmas,
our thoughts are with you....
 Christmas 2012
 
Christmas 2012

Thursday, November 22, 2012

Grief & Gratitude

Elizabeth (our mom) GG (our grandma) Heather (our sister)
Leah & Malinda

Aileen "GG" O'Connor Hill was diagnosed with cancer on Friday, July 13 and died on Monday, July 16, 2012. Her sudden and unexpected death has affected us profoundly. While the grief is intense, we are grateful for all that she gave us. She continues to inspire us as we run together to fight childhood cancer with Team Lemon.

"Fighting childhood cancer, one race at a time!"
No donation is too small to fight childhood cancer!

Thursday, October 18, 2012

Running with Gratitude Grief, & Gastroparesis (#Irun4GG)

It's been a difficult 3 months..
The pain of grief & gastroparesis can be intense...



In spite of the pain, I keep on running...


I finished the Chicago Marathon in 4:05:58





Michael & GG were with me...

Every step of the way...



I find solace in running...

I'm grateful for every mile...

Training for my 3rd Philly Marathon...



Identical twins run with Team Lemon

In memory of our grandma "GG"

and Leah's brother-in-law Michael.



Can you donate $2 to Alex's Lemonade?

Are you training for the Philadelphia Marathon?

Are you a runner with chronic illness?

Do you find solace in running?

Malinda's posts on Grief, Gratitude & Gastroparesis:
Grief & Gratitude
Sep 24, 2012

Grief & Gratitude. On Friday, July 13, our grandma "GG" fell. In the ER, she was diagnosed with cancer. She died 3 days later on Monday, July 16. It's been 10 weeks since GG died. We are still crying and missing you.

Tweeting While Running: #TweetAndRun
Sep 13, 2012

I've been using the hashtags #Irun4GG (I run in memory of my grandma GG), #GGplaylist (Random Shuffle + Grief + Gratitude) and #TweetAndRun. After honing my skills at cutting, pasting, cropping and typing while running, ...

Philly Undy 5000 Race Recap
Sep 08, 2012

Since Katie lost her husband to colon cancer, I was so grateful for her support of my tweet to bring awareness to the Undy 5000 and grieving families! I'm still trying to gather my thoughts to write a post, but wanted to share a ...

Twin Powers Activate on @TwinsRun ...
Aug 28, 2012

TWIN POWERS ACTIVATE! Can you donate $2 on @TwinsRun 2sDay? http://www.alexslemonade.org/mypage/81058 · THANKS for your support! Malinda Runs 2 #GGPlaylist! Random Shuffle = Grief & Gratitude Love to get ...

Gastroparesis & Grief
Aug 19, 2012

Gastroparesis & Grief. It's been a difficult 5 weeks... The pain of grief and gastroparesis has been intense... Each day can be a struggle, but I keep on running... I find solace in running and I'm grateful for every mile... In 7 weeks ...

@TwinsRun 2gether
Jul 29, 2012

The twins' Irish grandmother was diagnosed with cancer on Friday, July 13 and died on Monday, July 16, 2012. Her sudden and unexpected death has affected the twins profoundly. Their grief is intense, ...

The Afghan Whigs
Jul 28, 2012

We are still grieving her loss, but we keep running in her honor and in her memory with Team Lemon to support Alex's Lemonade Stand Foundation for Childhood Cancer. Our grandma GG always had great sense of humor ...

#GGplaylist (Grandma's Songs & Signs)
Jul 27, 2012

#GGplaylist = random shuffle + grief + gratitude. Posted by TWINS RUN in our family at 1:21 PM · Email ThisBlogThis!Share to TwitterShare to Facebook. Labels: #GGplaylist, Afghan Whigs, grandma, Gratitude, Grief, ...

Random Shuffle + Grief + Graditude = #GGplaylist
Jul 25, 2012

Random Shuffle + Grief + Graditude = #GGPlaylist (July 24). Random Shuffle on iPhone = #GGplaylist. Grief + Gratitude <--> Great + Grandma. Follow #GGplaylist on Twitter & Instagram!


Blue Monday & #GGPlaylist
Jul 23, 2012

We are still grieving her loss, but we keep running in her honor and in her memory. She always had great sense of humor & her spirit is still with me on my #run! #randomplay shuffle songs = #ggplaylist! #irun4gg #runchat # ...


Random Shuffle + Grief + Graditude ...
Jul 23, 2012

Random Shuffle + Grief + Graditude = #GGPlaylist (July 23) ... Share to TwitterShare to Facebook. Labels: #GGplaylist, Afghan Whigs, Chicago Marathon, GG, grandma, Gratitude, Grief, instagram, Malinda, Marathon Training ...


I Will Say Your Names & Remember
Jul 20, 2012

They hold onto the grief that binds their love to you. They will remember the insidious unknowns. That stole your breath, stopped your beating hearts. They will relive your last moments, last touches, last breaths. And rewind ...

"GG" . . . Our Grief & Gratitude
Jul 19, 2012

“I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in ...


In Loving Memory of "GG"
Jul 17, 2012

We will continue to fight to end cancer in their memory. We will advocate for palliative care & hospice, too. We thank you for your support during this difficult time. "Grief is not the process of forgetting. Grief is the process of ...

Monday, September 24, 2012

Grief & Gratitude

On Friday, July 13, our grandma "GG" fell.
In the ER, she was diagnosed with cancer.
She died 3 days later on Monday, July 16.

It's been 10 weeks since GG died.
We are still crying and missing you...

Grief affected me a lot this weekend...
Feeling my own grief and the grief of others...

Grieving is difficult...for adults and children...
Be patient with those who are grieving...

"Grief is not the process of forgetting,
It is the process of remembering,
With less pain and more joy"

I'm still waiting for the day with less pain...


And then the sad news that the baby panda died...
My daughter drew photos of baby panda in heaven...
Our family dog, Molly, meets the baby panda in heaven...
My daughter drew a picture to cheer me up...
It's officially fall, usually my favorite time of year...
 Grateful to find solace in running in memory of GG 
Grateful to listen to #GGplaylist
(Random Shuffle + Grief + Gratitude)
Grateful to run Chicago Marathon on Oct 7
Grateful to be running with Team Lemon 
Grateful to spport Alex's Lemonade Stand Foundation 
Grateful to be running in memory of...
Michael Connor
Aileen O'Connor Hill


Grateful for your support!
If you can, could you please donate $2?
All donations DOUBLED by Volvo in September!